almost finish status support everywhere else, group setting start impl

src/routes/api/updates/+server.ts

@@ -37,6 +37,8 @@ export async function GET({ locals, request }) {
   const userId = locals.user.id;
   //@TODO add more to subscribed eventually, server members, et cetera
   const subscribed = locals.user.friends.map((f) => f.id);
+  subscribed.push(userId); // shit such as friend requests
+  
   const overwrite = locals.user.statusOverwrite;
 
   const sessionId = crypto.randomUUID();